When I say "the person I love" or when you say "the person you love", we usually have a specific person in mind. In other words, we don't quite mean the whole world. We don't quite mean everyone. I know that this doesn't sound nice, but you and I know that it's (universally) true. And it's not wrong because it doesn't mean that I or you literally don't love other people. It just means that we don't have a personal relationship with those people. So, even though we "love" everybody by default, we don't literally have everybody in mind when we say our 'loved ones'.
The reverse is true also. That is, there is someone, somewhere, who doesn't mean you or me when they say "the person I love". Therefore, those people that you don't mean when you talk about the person you love are not necessarily unloved. They are someone else's beloved person/people.
So, here's something I hope you and I always remember: everyone always wants what's best for them. What's best for the people they love even when that sometimes puts others (who are someone's beloved) at risk. But, may we always remember that even though everyone may not be our beloved person, everyone is someone's beloved person. That homeless man, mother in a certain warzone, or depressed teenager (the list goes on) that we know nothing about or struggle to relate to is someone else's beloved person. Remembering this will help us humanize the people that we unfortunately so often unknowingly dehumanize.
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